I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately. Mostly about this whole wedding thing. For a couple weeks after we got engaged I jumped right into planning mode. I started making lists and spread sheets for venues, caterers, and all sorts of things.
And then last week I had moment sitting in the car, driving home with Rob, where I started to think about the small simple wedding we had often talked about. And I wondered what happened to that idea? It’s his wedding too and he’s always said he’d like to keep it small.
It seems like most people instinctively know if they want a big wedding or a small one. But what about those of us who are up in the air? How do you find the right balance of people, budget, and everything else?
This is one of those hard decisions that we’re still working on. I’m trying to keep my budget down but I also want to have an awesome, fun, joyous celebration with our friends and families. I’m not entirely sure where we’ll end up on this issue. Both of us are still thinking about it, but I think we’re going to end up doing something smaller than the 100 person bash I started to plan.